To my miserable self,
I know what you’re going through, my dear. But as you well know, this life isn’t a bed of roses; everyone experiences both good and bad days.
You may believe that the people in your life will assist you in overcoming your sorrow. However, keep in mind that no matter what you say to others, only you will truly understand your struggles.
Don’t worry buddy; you’ve lived such days before, and you’ll climb this mountain too. And yeah, this letter will make sure you feel better every time you read it.
Take a moment and see that there’s something good where this path is leading you.
Hey, I know that sometimes we work so hard for something or someone that it becomes impossible to let go.
You felt that you had it figured out and suddenly wondered what’s happening.
I’ve had a profound plan, and everything was going well. It can’t happen again. You took a left turn when you should have taken a right, but you were unaware of this.
Feel your emotions (crying, hurting, questioning), but when you are done, pick yourself up and move forward. Holding onto that pain will crush the blessings you deserve.
So, forgive yourself and learn the lesson. Never stop and remember that a new day comes with new opportunities and things that make you successful, and laugh at the bad days of the past.
Things to remember must include being grateful because you’re luckier than you could ever imagine. I know you won’t disagree; you have been blessed many times and are still being blessed by the universe.
Don’t you feel the same?
Ask your inner self, and you will get the answer. Put back your smile and measure how you grow through the challenges that ever come.
Certain things don’t work out for your own good. Let’s be happy and cherish every moment and experience we gain in our lives.
Respect your past self for each and every goal it had. Not achieving a goal doesn’t mean you should bale yourself out and suffer your whole life.
Some days we feel like hating everything—the universe, people, and situations. No words can describe how you feel inside.
Take a breath and dedicate your time to remembering the moments that naturally make you happy.
Your response to the situation will start changing, and this letter for life will deepen your relationship with yourself. I’m always there for you, sweetie.
Things make sense at the right time; that’s life. Until then, you must put more faith in God’s plan than in your own desires.
A little request this letter for life has from you is to trust that everything happens for a reason. It is important to take decisions that ensure your future success and inspire you in the meantime.
I am aware that it might be challenging to let go of failed endeavors and accept the truth. You will feel frustrated, unhappy, despaired, and anxious, but please don’t stay in this state for too long.
This might serve as a call to physical or mental disease. Chronic illnesses are primarily caused by stress and anxiety. Therefore, it is vital to focus on the future rather than the past.
There are times when you love someone who either doesn’t love you back or breaks your heart. You may feel that this person loves and cares for you. But what you feel towards someone or something is not always a reality.
You’ll ask yourself, “Seriously?” I did everything to get this in return. Remember that love can’t be forced when someone does not love you back.
Love makes life meaningful, and seeing them happy while respecting their decisions is true love.
If someone betrayed you, don’t blame yourself. Trusting deeply in someone you love isn’t wrong. People say, “Love is blind,” which is true.
When you love someone, you invest all your trust, emotions, and love in that particular person. Forgiving that person in silence and never talking to them again is the best decision.
Don’t demand answers, don’t point fingers, and create peace for the good memories you shared with them in the past by releasing your anger.
And while dealing with the tragedies that are passing through your life, spending time with your real friends and family is the key to happiness.
The majority of Americans ignore this ultimate happiness secret, and their busy schedules also prevent them from doing this.
Everyone needs a break, especially youth, so they can spend time with the people who care for them the most. You’re strong as well as the creator of your own happiness.
Look for pleasure in the little things in life, like a piece of chocolate, your favorite spicy dish, or a fluffy cotton candy. Your despair will melt away as you experience these little moments of happiness.
With all this, I just want to tell you that you’ve overcome much worse, and staying down for too long won’t help. Never forget your strengths and the value you bring to the world.
You are enough, no matter how you may have felt because of someone or something bad. Their beliefs were reflected in their actions, but those actions do not define you.
I know you’ll keep going because I love you.
Do your absolute best and don’t give up!
You are on the cusp of entering a new era of success and blessings. Keep a print copy of this letter to life on your desk to read whenever you are feeling down.
Sending you love and light.
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